朋友们开了个新项目,叫「十分之一」,一个面向 10-15 岁少年的阅读和创作项目。目前的形式的是以每期几封长信的形式,和他们一起阅读、交流世界上正在发生的事情。
我也领了个友情任务,作为老员工,写封信和小朋友们介绍介绍迪士尼乐园。
写完提刚后拖延了半个月,今天不得不动笔。提纲第一段过于言简意赅:「一个小故事开篇」。写完这个「小故事」的第一稿,1200 字。
……颤抖吧,少年们!
哦对,这里是正式的「发刊词」,她们写得比我全。
在上一期杂志里,她们想和少年读者们聊聊「亲密关系」,拜托我帮忙给 Steve 提几个问题。他非常认真地问了 deadline,然后压线交了两页文档给我。
其中有段写得超好,想分享给全世界。
Q4. If your kids come to you for relationship advice, what would that be?
- Take your time! This is not a particularly romantic notion, but finding the right person is as much about it being the right time in your life as it is about the individual in question.
- Pay attention to how you feel about yourself when you’re around this person. The right person makes you feel confident, like the best version of yourself. It’s distressingly easy to be in a relationship that makes you feel not good about yourself. You need to have the courage to get out of those relationships.
- What does your relationship do to the rest of your social world? In our experience, successful / healthy relationships broaden your social world -- your friends become their friends, etc. In our opinion, one sign of a relationship that’s not going to last is when the person wants you too much for themselves, or feels threatened by your other close relationships.
@fornever 最开始关注for老师就是因为迪士尼系列!没想到还有新版本!粉丝狂喜!
@teabagpot 老坑也能出新番,想不到吧!
@fornever omg for老师居然和崔瑾是朋友吗?!我听过她做客的一期播客,《声东击西》里一期关于独立女性和成为母亲的讨论。听完特别佩服她一直专注做事业、后来又做妈妈的坚毅和独立。好棒的!
@teabagpot 她真是个神奇的女人!我和女朋友都曾在她手下工作过,平均一周被骂 176 次,时隔多年,我俩笑话起别人来也经常会用「这种货色,在崔瑾手下活不过三天」这种句式
@fornever 我闻到了故事的味道!!!!!一人血书请for老师讲神奇女人的故事!!
@fornever 期待定稿!for老师发稿会在象上转的吧
@teabagpot 回头我问一下,应该会!
@fornever 好哟!期待老坑新文
有稿酬,但我拿不到。这笔钱会滚入一个「基金会」,所有的作者都是股东,年底我们会一起讨论决定这笔钱要花到哪里,捐给希望工程?帮助几个失学儿童?参与营养午餐?都有可能。
我非常喜欢这个点子。