#炸号记录
当一个系统需要每一个参与者都是道德绝对清白、意志绝对坚定的“好人”才能运行健全的时候,就说明这个系统已经完蛋了。人都是利己的动物,作决策都看赏罚。如果一个游戏by design做坏事没代价,做好事可能要送命,你猜大家会怎样?是怪玩家还是怪游戏设计者?治理仅靠道德约束是远远不够的。
终于找到过去十年丢掉的自我(的一部分)
It feels like I'm not allowing myself to connect with the part that can feel angry, "irrational", "out of control", and aggressive. This disconnect is accompanied by an extremely low expectation of people (or sometimes a lack of positive expectations) - a feeling that my request is always not going to be accommodated in America. I feel like my wings have been clipped permanently. I have a deep down fear that there will be more instances in life where I'm wronged for simply not being 100% familiar with the cultural playbook here; and when that happens, being angry and aggressive is not going to be a good look.
@board 想换工作。但是已经做过的工作很多都知道不想做,没做过的又不知道会不会喜欢。不知道怎么办。请各位赐教。
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